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Moms Talk: I Quit?

What happens when the mom who does everything decides not to do it anymore?

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This week, our discussion turns to Mother's Day.  You know, lots of moms I know had great a really great Mother's Day.  And now, it is "TWAMD".  "The Week After Mother's Day"  What does that mean?  It means that we have kicked back into the other 364 days of the year.  All of you moms know what I am talking about.  Sunday was great.  Sleeping in.  Brunch.  Presents.  Dad taking care of all the dirty jobs associated with parenting (you know what I'm talking about!)  It's all great.  YAY FOR US!  ONE DAY A YEAR! 

But as I write this, it is Monday.  Life has returned to normal.  Moms all across the country are back to business as usual.  Pack lunches.  Finish school projects.  Make dinner.  Do laundry.  Clean the house.  Yadayadayada.  What's the point?  A day of rest?  What is the saying?  No rest for the weary? 

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So, I loved it when a friend of mine forwarded this article - from my already favorite'ish blog -- talking about their role as martyr, errr, I mean, Head of the Household.  Is it true?  Do moms sometimes take on the role of supermom - super employee/super mom/super friend/super everything to everyone? 

Ummmm.... if I deign to speak for all of my girlfriends in the Bethesda area, YES!  We all think we can do it all.  But do we need to?  Do our kids need us to be "Beyond Expectations" on our work performance appraisals and also the person who makes hospital corner beds and gourmet dinners?  I don't think so.  Would they gain something from being imparted a little independence and responsibility?  I think so.  This is a lesson that may be a little early for my 2 1/2 year old, but I am definitely bookmarking this idea for next year.  What do you think?  Do you do more than your fair share around the house?  Do you think that your family would would be well-served if you gave them a little responsibility of their own around their house?

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